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Mon 23

Weekly Day Meditation Sessions

September 23 @ 1:10 pm - 1:45 pm
Wed 25

Weekly Wednesday Evening Meditation Sessions

September 25 @ 5:30 pm - 6:30 pm
Wed 25

Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction 8-Week Course

September 25 @ 7:00 pm - 9:30 pm
Thu 26

Weekly Day Meditation Sessions

September 26 @ 1:10 pm - 1:45 pm
Fri 27

Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction 8-Week Course

September 27 @ 9:00 am - 11:30 am
Mon 30

Weekly Day Meditation Sessions

September 30 @ 1:10 pm - 1:45 pm

MSC 5-Day Residential Mindfulness-Based Silent Retreat-Self-Compassion with Trish Magyari

March 15-20, 2020
Ramapo College of New Jersey, Mahwah, NJ

5-Day Silent Retreat Information, Application/Registration

Deepen your practice with the Krame Center’s first residential silent retreat highlighting practices from Mindful Self-Compassion (MSC). This retreat teacher-led intensive silent retreat is perfect for MSC graduates, graduates of MSC Core Skills training, as well as other mindfulness practitioners including MBSR graduates who are familiar with lovingkindness and other compassion practices.

This 5 night Silent retreat is sponsored by the Center for Mindful Self Compassion (MSC), and fulfills the prerequisite for MSC teacher training and other Mindfulness-Based interventions such as MBSR And MBCT.  This retreat is also open to all who want to deepen their connection with mindfulness and compassion practice.

This retreat will be based on the life-changing and well-researched work of Christopher Germer and Kristin Neff, creators of the Mindful Self Compassion Program, as well as ancient wisdom practice from several traditions. This is an opportunity to renew and deepen your practice of compassion and mindfulness meditation, and live fully in a strong, supportive, and beautiful environment.

All of us have an innate capacity to experience well-being, strength, and confidence, even in the face of stress, pain, or illness. In order to enhance that capacity, we introduce the power of mindfulness, the practice of meeting each moment with an open heart and mind. The Mindfulness Meditation Retreat is an intensive, residential, teacher-led, silent meditation retreat, which emphasizes the deep understanding and practice of mindfulness meditation in its most universal and secular expression.

The philosophy of mindful self-compassion will be woven throughout the retreat in both what we are doing and how we are working with the retreat experience. This includes daily practice with the inquiry, “What do I need right now?.  Strengthen your ability to be present with yourself just as you are, with kindness and care with expert guidance by an experienced retreat leader and in a compassionate community of others.

The daily schedule includes guided and silent sitting and walking meditation, mindful movement/gentle yoga, daily sense and savor walk outdoors, body scan, lovingkindness meditation, other compassion practices, and teaching focused on applying self-compassion, especially finding the balance between giving and receiving. Individual and group inquiry sessions with teachers are included.

Note: This silent retreat is *not* appropriate for those in a current mental health crisis, those with unresolved trauma or with serious untreated or unregulated mental health conditions.  It is an excellent option for experienced mindfulness and/or self-compassion practitioners (those with previous silent retreat experience); or MSC or MBSR graduates; or those in a mindfulness or self-compassion teaching training track. Please contact Trish if you are not sure whether this retreat is right for you at this time.

This retreat fulfills the silent retreat requirement for professional training in MSC, MBSR and MBCT.

Retreat Details

  • Dates:  Retreat check-in begins at 2:30pm on March 15, followed by a dinner and an orientation. The retreat will end on March 20 at noon followed by a lunch. Please plan accordingly.
  • Tuition: Check back for pricing  (including $500 non-refundable deposit). Includes 3 meals a day, all day snacks, water, tea & coffee, and double room on-campus residential lodging. Please see Meals & Snacks, Retreat & Housing Guidelines and Sample Schedule below. DOUBLE ROOMS ONLY.
  • Application/Registration Process: Step 1 is to complete an application, please check back. Step 2 is to register and pay upon receipt of your acceptance email.
  • Cancellation Policy: Cancellation prior to 30 days before the retreat will receive a refund of tuition less the $500 non-refundable deposit. Cancellations within 30 days of the event will receive $375, or half of the total of tuition less the $500 non-refundable deposit.
  • Spots are given on a first come, first served basis, dependent upon on payment and room availability.

Program Goals

  • Provide a safe and nourishing environment for the cultivation and development of a deep and grounded mindfulness meditation practice.
  • Foster a rigorous retreat experience – independent of a specific religious outlook – that fulfills Oasis Institute
  • Offer excellent support and guidance from highly trained and experienced teachers and meditation instructors.
  • Practice noble silence to develop a strong container for deepening meditation practice.

For those who are new to meditation practice, please be aware that practicing for a week in silence can be an intensive and challenging – as well as a highly rewarding – experience.

Retreat Leader - Trish Magyari, MS, LCPC, RYT-200

Trish Magyari

Trish Magyari, MS, LCPC, RYT-200, is a Certified MSC teacher, Certified MBSR teacher, mindfulness and compassion-based psychotherapist, Insight Meditation teacher (Founding teacher, IMCW-Baltimore), yoga teacher and experienced residential retreat leader. She is a mentor in two professional mindfulness meditation programs—the UCSD Mindfulness-based Professional Training Institute (MBPTI) and the Mindfulness Meditation Teacher Certification Program (MMTCP).  This will be Trish’s 5thresidential retreat that she’s led specifically for those who wish to be nourished by Mindful Self-Compassion (MSC) practices in a silent retreat setting

Daily Retreat Schedule

Retreat Schedule (Sample – times may shift slightly)

Sunday, March 15, 2020

2:30pm Registration and Check-in begins

6:00pm – 7:00pm Dinner: Social dinner

6:45pm – 7:15pm Newcomers orientation(those who haven’t attended silent residential retreat of this length or who have questions about this retreat format)

7:30pm – 9:30pm Opening Retreat Session – Silence begins at end of this session

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Daily Schedule for Monday March 16 – Thursday March 19 (Silence maintained)

7:00am – 8:00am Mindful Gentle Yoga and Meditation

8:00 am  – 9:00 am Breakfast– Mindful eating in Silence

9:00am – 9:30amSelf-guided time

9:30am – 12:00pm Guided meditations and teaching on mindfulness and self-compassion

12:00pm  – 1:00p Lunch Silent mindful eating

1:00pm – 2:00pm  Self-guided practice time on the property/rest

2:00pm – 3:30 pmSitting and walking meditation and/or group and individual inquiry

3:30pm– 5:30pmGroup Sense and Savor Walk, Seeing Meditations, Mindful Movement, Compassion practices

5:30pm -6:00pm Self-guided silent practice time on the property/rest

6:00pm  – 7:00pm DinnerSilent mindful eating

7:30 – 9:30pm Evening program: Teaching talks and meditation practice

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Friday, March 20, 2020 – Final Day of Retreat

7:00am – 8:00am Mindful Gentle Yoga and Meditation

8:00 am  – 9:00 am Breakfast– Mindful eating in Silence

9:00am – 9:45amSelf-structured time, packing, vacating rooms

9:45am – 11:45am Guided meditations, Teaching (Coming out of silence, Next steps) and Closing Circle

12:00pm  – 1:00p Lunch

2:00pmFond Farewells

Housing Description/What To Bring

You will be staying in a dorm room on the beautiful campus of Ramapo College. Dorm rooms have dressers, a bathroom with a shower and shower curtain, an adjustable air conditioning / heating unit, and linens will be provided in each room. Linen sets include sheets, a pillow case, a thin blanket, a thin pillow, hand towel, wash cloth and a bath mat. Please note that shower towels are not provided. Each room also has a small refrigerator and microwave, but no coffee maker or tea pot. There is a vending machine and free laundry facilities on the 1st floor, however laundry detergent is not supplied. NOTE:  All rooms are doubles.

We suggest you bring the following items with you:

  • Shower Towel
  • Blanket for bed for added warmth
  • Hat & scarf (meditation room tends to get cold)
  • Bed Pillow (if you need two pillows or prefer a thicker pillow)
  • Toiletries (shampoo, hand and shower soap, lotion)
  • Slippers and shower shoes
  • Snacks (snacks are provided throughout the day and evening, please see listing on website.)
  • Alarm clock for your room (cell phone use is not recommended)
  • Wrist watch (cell phone use is restricted)

Prohibited Items: (visit https://web.ramapo.edu/reslife/guide/11-1-overview/ for full listing)

  • Aerosol Products
  • Space Heaters
  • Hot plates
  • Electric Kettles
  • Coffee Pots
  • Rice Cookers
  • Toasters and Toaster Ovens
  • Candles
  • Incense
  • Hookahs & E-cigarettes
  • Extension cords and multiple plug adapters
  • Leger and Wiremold Power Strips
Retreat/Participant Guidelines
  • Silence: Often referred to as noble silence – the entire retreat will be conducted in silence except during designated daily Question and Answer and practice discussion sessions.
  • Noble silence means the following: suspension of all talking, reading, writing, texting, cell phone use, picture taking, listening to music or poetry, painting etc. Integral to this silence, we will also give ourselves over to the practice of “modesty of the eyes” – refraining from eye contact with one another. This is not meant to be a form of “shunning” or isolation. Rather, as in many retreat traditions across the world, this practice provides another means of minimizing distraction and attending with closeness and care to the unfolding of our lives.
  • Exercising: is fine (without music). Feel free to work in exercise time around the retreat schedule. The campus offers beautiful outdoor space to explore. The gym at the college is not accessible.
  • Cell Phones: Unless you are on-call because of your profession or in the midst of a family crisis, we request that all devices (cellphones etc.) be turned off and stored for the duration of the retreat. While challenging, your cooperation will support everyone’s practice. If you request support with this guideline, the retreat staff will hold your devices and return them to you at the end of the retreat.
  • Note Taking: During the evening talks you can take minimal notes as needed.
  • Message Board: There will be a message board where you can write a note if you need something or require assistance.
  • Attendance: We request that you attend the entire retreat including all of the practice periods and talks.
  • Punctuality: We request that you arrive at each practice period on time and stay for the entire period. Of course, if you have to use the toilet facilities during these sessions, you’ll be free to do so.
  • Meditation Hall: Unless you have a medical condition that requires you to eat in the meditation hall, with the exception of water, please refrain from eating and drinking in the meditation hall. Also, we will ask you to remove your shoes before entering the meditation hall. Feel free to bring slippers or socks.
  • Chairs, Cushions, Yoga Mats and Blankets: Everyone will be provided a chair, yoga mat, zabuton cushion, round cushion and blanket for the retreat space. Please bring anything else that you may need to keep you comfortable and warm.
  • Emergency Contact: If a family member needs to reach you due to an emergency, please give them the Ramapo College Public Safety phone number 201-684-6666. They must mention their name, your name and the Krame Center Silent Retreat in the Pavilion. Public safety will immediately know where to find you.
Meals & Snacks

Meals are served 3 times per day. They are prepared by our wonderful on-site catering staff, are vegetarian based with vegan/dairy free and gluten free options. Snacks, tea and coffee are available all day for your convenience. Snacks include breads, nut butters, butter, jams, nut mix, and whole fruits.

Dinner will be served at 5:30pm after Check In on Sunday.

Emergency Contact at Home

Please let your loved ones know that you will be phone and computer free for 5 days. If they need to reach you due to an emergency, please have them call Ramapo Public Safety at 201-684-6666. Please make sure that they state their nameyour name and that you are in the Krame Center Silent Retreat.

Mandatory Fire Drill

There will be a mandatory fire drill on Sunday following check in at 4:30pm in your dormitory where you will be residing. Please make sure to be in the 1st floor  lobby of the dorm (where check in will take place) at that time. This fire drill is for your safety. If you will not be arriving until after the drill, please touch base with any Krame Staff when you arrive to find out the protocol in case of a fire.


What Past Participants Have to Say

“A sense arose that I would be able to handle whatever came to me in the moment. Since then I have noticed a greater sense of freedom from the tether of my thoughts. Thank you!” – 5-Day Silent Retreat Participant

“Heartfelt gratitude for the Krame Center in offering such a life changing program that has the potential to change many lives.” – J.C., 5-Day Silent Retreat March 2018

“This was my first retreat, nothing could have prepared me for this wonderful experience I had.” – P.J.T., 5-Day Silent Retreat March 2018

“I experienced a slowing down and an opening up to this very full daily living experience.”- C.J., 5- Day Silent Retreat March 2018

I am certain will prove to be an experience of enduring impact.” – S.E., 5-Day Silent Retreat March 2018

“The food was amazing!!” – M.C.M., 5- Day Silent Retreat March 2018

“This experience was both wonderful and challenging.” – M.B., 5-Day Silent Retreat March 2018


To request disability-related accommodations, please contact mindfulness@ramapo.edu.

Krame Center for Mindful Living at Ramapo College of NJ
505 Ramapo Valley Rd, Mahwah, NJ, 07430 in Bergen County, New Jersey, Northern New Jersey
201.684.6855
mindfulness@ramapo.edu